Attract More Women By Acting Like a Busy Guy

Be more confident. Try the cocky-funny technique. I could go on and on. There are so many tips available to help you attract women. As much as these tips indeed can help you attract more women, you can attract more women with just one simple technique. Be busy. That's it. You can get a woman's attention and increase her desire by having a busy life, or at least appearing to have a busy life.

Here's why…

For many men, the challenge is not getting a woman's phone number. Maybe they have fine-tuned their skills and have moved beyond that hurdle and can easily get the number. But, many guys still struggle with the "post-number" phase when they need to follow up and actually get a date. The problem is usually that the chemistry and intrigue created during the first conversation have diminished somewhat. As a woman turns her attention to other matters in her daily life, your call gradually becomes less of her focal point.

This is fairly natural occurrence. No, the solution is not to call her immediately after the first conversation. You simply need to rebuild her interest, desire and attraction. Stimulate her desire again, and you can do this best by remembering a common tip yet applying it with a twist. Women tend to be generally more attracted those with more active, exciting lives. Peak her curiosity by showing her that you are a "busy guy."

A woman will be more intrigued if it appears that there is a lot going on and requiring your attention. Suddenly, your value increases as it is obvious you are not anxiously waiting to see her again or sitting by the telephone waiting for the call. Also, she may even think you are dating or at least talking to other women, which increases her desire for your attention. Again, a little competition, whether present or not in reality, increases the challenge on her end and your value in her eyes.

Wouldn't it be better to have her waiting by the phone for you call? How can you keep that attraction there after you get her number? Here's how.

During that first call, be sure to express that there are just quite a few things requiring your attention during the upcoming week and, as much as you wish you did, you presently have no free time. Emphasize that you would like to see her but that it has "been very busy lately." You want to avoid giving the impression that you do not want to see her but do not apologize for your busy life. Just imply with subtlety that you wish you had the time to see her that week, but just do not.

Now, you can go ahead and plan for a date during that conversation for a time when things "slow down." Once the date is set and the plans are made, end the call and get off the phone since you have "things to do" or "need to be somewhere." Do not be too specific, though, but make it sound somewhat important or interesting to again, spike her curiosity.

Once you are on the date, talk a little about some of the activities that have been requiring your time lately. The point is to make it clear that you are a busy guy but that you do want to include her in your "schedule."

This approach is effective. The last thing you want to do after getting her phone number is to give the impression that you have nothing else going on in your life!

4 Seduction Techniques You Must Use in a Conversation

When does seduction start?

The reason I ask this question is because many guys make mistakes when it comes to seduction. They think seduction starts once they're alone with a woman.

The truth is seduction starts long before you're in private with a girl. In fact, it starts during your initial conversation. If you can be seductive from the moment you meet a woman, then you can quickly build attraction and rapport. The end result is you'll find it easier to make things more intimate with a woman.

In this article, you'll learn about 4 specific techniques you MUST use when you first meet a woman. By implementing these secrets, you'll find it'll be easy to put her under your seductive spell.

Seduction Technique #1- Use an interesting and funny opener

To be honest, the first thing you say to a woman sets the tone of the ENTIRE conversation. As a result, you need to use a funny and interesting opener that'll attract her attention

Your goal when you first approach a woman is get a woman talking and make her interested in you. Typically you can accomplish this with an opener that asks her opinion on something. All you have to do is craft an opener which will pique her interest.

The opener can be anything from asking an opinion on your friend's girlfriend trouble all the way to getting her opinion on which type of cologne you use. As long as you do this in a funny manner, you'll at least get her talking.

Seduction Technique #2- Use the cocky/funny technique

Now once you're getting her to talk, you should implement what's widely known as the cocky/funny technique. The idea behind this attitude is act slightly arrogant while finding little things where you can tease her.

While it might seem counterintuitive, cocky/funny is a great technique because you're using humor to establish yourself as an alpha male. And this is done in a non-aggressive way without acting like a jerk.

As long as she's laughing at the things you're saying, cocky/funny is a great way to quickly build attraction and put her under your seductive spell.

Seduction Technique #3- Use questions to find interesting things about her

Repeat after me…

"I will NOT ask her boring questions!"

The logic behind this statement is a lot of guys ask women specific questions which do nothing to build attraction. Typically these 'interview like' questions can include asking about her job or what she likes to do.

Instead of asking these questions, you should focus the conversation on talking about funny topics. You can accomplish by using provocative questions which make her think.

This can include:

"What's the craziest thing you've ever done"

"How would you spend a million dollars"

"How much money would it take for you to sleep with a random stranger"

While these questions may seem a bit childish, there are great for building attraction and getting to know her better.

Seduction Technique #4- Use sexual innuendos in your conversation

The best way to really seduce a woman during your conversation is to use sexual innuendos. Now I don't mean you should start talking about how you want to have sex with this woman. Instead you should interject little comments into the conversation about the topic.

For instance, you can joke about how "she wants you". Or you could mention comments about how she's hitting on you and trying to pick you up for sexual favors.

If you can combine sexual innuendos with cocky/funny you'll quickly steer the conversation towards this topic. Then once this happens, you'll be freely talking about sex, while building physical chemistry.

As you know by now, seduction starts with the first thing you say to a woman. By using these 4 seduction techniques I described in this article, you'll be able to build instant attraction. Then once this happens, you'll find that it's easy to steer the conversation towards becoming intimate.

A Secret Technique to Make Her Always Think of You

There are a lot of great techniques and lessons you can take from neuro-linguistic programming. For instance, you can use a wonderful trick called anchoring.

When you use anchoring on a woman, you take an outside object or emotion and use it to trigger a positive emotion related to you. The goal of anchoring is to take this object and find a way to get her to think of you when you're not around.

Now in order to make her think of you when you're not around, you have to link a shared memory to a positive experience shared by the two of you. Normally this memory is a fun date or a private moment that you had.

Here's a great way to implement this technique into your dating life…

The next time you're with a woman and you hear a popular song on the radio, start singing it...OFF KEY!

Now one of the principles for attraction is to establish yourself as a higher status person. But this is one of those RARE moments when acting like a slightly goofy person can actually help you. By singing a song in a memorable way you'll be acting a funny manner. Furthermore, if you get her join in you'll be having fun while singing badly.

The best part is this technique has helped you create...

A MEMORY!

When you share a currently popular song, you'll increase your chances of having her think of you when you're not around. Since music is an important part of everyone's life, she'll probably hear this song multiple times. And when she does, she'll THINK OF YOU!

By sharing a popular song together, you can have her thinking of you in a positive way. This will then flood her mind with the memory of the fun times you have with her.