Signs of a Cheating Partner

Whether you've been in a relationship for a month or 10 years, the fear of a partner cheating is always there.

You may be thinking, "my lover would never cheat, we have the greatest relationship". Well while you may think that is true your partner may not. We are going to help you with some signs that may indicate your partner is cheating.

One sign of a cheating partner may be a loss or lack of sex drive. Unless you know of any additional stresses from work or family related issues then it could be a sign; well at least sign that he is no longer interested in sex with you. A good way to figure that out is by simply test him. One night make his favorite dinner, rent his favorite movie, and then entice him to the bedroom with a favorite outfit. If he declines or doesn't seem interested then there is a strong chance that he may be cheating.

Another way to figure out if your partner is cheating is if they become defensive. Most people who cheat feel bad, but instead of being extra nice to, they turn aggressive and defensive. If you notice a change in their behavior in a short period of time then it may be a sign of a cheating partner.

If your partner is never around anymore and seems to always come up with excuses such as overtime, which they have never worked before, or if he/she frequently takes spontaneous business trips – there may be something going on.

Is your partner on the computer late at night? Do they receive calls on their cell phone and then leave the room to talk? In the past, receiving excessive phone hang ups was a sure sign of a cheating partner. Today, men and women are smarter; they use their cell phones and/or computers to facilitate their cheating. If you share a cell phone bill with your partner, take a quick glance at the incoming calls. Are there any numbers that you don't recognize? How often do they call those numbers? If you're really curious, why not try calling the number and see who answers it.

The following examples aren't exhaustive by any means, nor are they sure fire signs of a cheating partner. Be careful about how you approach your partner if you suspect something – they may just be stressed out or have to work late, and you don't want to jeopardize your relationship over a whim.

San Diego Date Ideas - Biking Coronado

Many people think of Coronado as an island, but it's really just a peninsula masquerading as an island; the bulk of it is connected to the mainland down south by a long, thin strip of land called the Silver Strand. But no matter what you call it, Coronado is definitely one of the more scenic places to visit in San Diego. The island (I say it too) has over 15 miles of dedicated bike paths that will take you along San Diego Bay, the Pacific Ocean, the golf course, under the Coronado Bay Bridge, and down Silver Strand. The nice thing is that the whole area is relatively flat, allowing you to enjoy terrific views of the San Diego Skyline, Pacific Ocean, and beaches without wearing yourself out. Add in a stop at the Hotel Del Coronado to explore the grounds and white sand beaches of this world-famous hotel and you have a great date in San Diego.

Now for the nuts and bolts. If you're staying downtown, I'd recommend taking the ferry across the bay and renting bikes right there at the Coronado ferry landing. To get there head over to the San Diego ferry landing at the intersection of N. Harbor Drive and Broadway, the ferry leaves every hour on the hour from 9am-9pm. After crossing the bay you'll find Bikes and Beyond right there. The company offers beach cruisers, road bikes, tandem bikes, and surreys, and while they don't take reservations, there are generally plenty of bikes available. If you're worried, call them ahead of time at (619) 435-7180 and ask what their current inventory's like. Those outside of walking or taxi distance can drive over the Coronado Bay Bridge and park at the Ferry Landing. You'll miss out on the ferry ride, but you'll also miss out on searching for places to park and paying for it like you would on the San Diego side.

Rent your transportation and then begin a leisurely ride south along the coast, going under the bridge and next to the golf course until you reach Glorietta Blvd. Take a left and follow Glorietta all the way down to the Hotel Del. After spending some time walking through the hotel interior, grounds, beach, and shops, relax with lunch at Sheerwater or Sunday brunch in the Crown Room. When you've finished lunch, you can bike around the center of town, head north along the coast up to the Naval Air Station and golf course, or continue south down Silver Strand. If you're feeling energetic, head south on Silver Strand (ocean side) and ride the asphalt trail that runs the length of the peninsula. It's a completely flat, 18-mile round trip with views of the ocean on one side and the bay on the other.

Don't forget to bring a hat and sunblock. Have a great time!