When A Woman You Just Met Lives To Far Away To Keep Her Interested

Question From A Reader:

I met this girl the other night and she lives a few hours away; but she is a really cool girl and we have stuff in common like music tastes. She lives too far away to see more than once a month if that; and I don't know if I could hold her interest like that.

What do you think?

Answer:

I don't know if you can hold her interest like that either as it really depends on her.

What you should do is continue going out and having a good time and act as if you aren't going to be able to hold her interest.

When the time comes where you might find yourself in the town that she lives in, give her a call and see what's up.

Her being a really cool girl, who has the same musical taste as you, does not mean much given the distance between the two of you.

Once a month isn't much time to be with a person you just met, which means that both parties will have to use their imagination more than living in reality to keep interest levels high.

Looking over your question it amazes me how you know you don't know if you could hold her interest yet don't question if she will be able to hold your interest as well; which needs to be your main concern, instead of worrying about things you can't control.

It is important that you realize your interest level and happiness are the only things you can or should focus on right now.

Otherwise you might find yourself holding the interest of a woman who under any other circumstance you would have lost interest in a long time ago.